First time is always special, set the tone for both short and long term ability to reach pleasure/climax and it is important to know the important tips before you have that glorious moment.
Use these suggestions, when you are 100% prepared to have sex,
Nearing the end of wait…
First one is always special because you spend days and in some cases months and years procrastinating how it is going to feel, and when the moment arrives, you’re obviously going to be under a lot of pressure for expectations and performance.
It is going to be just like how you rode that bicycle or car for the first time, you need time and a bit of practice to perfect the art.
While most would learn it from porn for the first time and assume that as a lovemaking standard. Here’s a piece of advice, sex in porn isn’t normal and is just like a movie with lot of retakes. Do not try to enact the scenes in the bedroom. It is going to be very different in person, let the sweet adventure drive you
First time with the right kind
Simply put, yes. It is important to have sex with the right partner for the first time because if you do it with someone who just doesn’t care enough or doesn’t feel enough love for you. Sex might just have a negative impact on you and you might refrain having it for a long time.
First time sex is magical and passionate. So one must take its time to enjoy each experience one step at a time.
First time comes once in a lifetime
First time comes just once, so if you think you are ready for the experience just make sure;
a. Your partner is ready for it too, don’t pressure if he/she is not ready yet, wait a while.
b. Also, do not give into pressure of the partner or do it because your friends say its amazing.
c. Being tricked, forced into it can leave you emotionally scarred and you may end up having bad. If he / she says all the friends have had it and we should do it too, just dump her/him, coz the one who doesn’t understand the relation is not worthy to loose your virginity with
How to enjoy first time and be safe
Explore each others body, kiss, caress, There’s so much to experience and try with different parts of each other’s bodies that there’s really no need to rush into sex if you haven’t done the rest yet. Also, do not forget to use protection under any circumstances. Make sure to use condom every time there’s penetration so you both are protected from pregnancy and STD
Best first position
If both of you have no idea about how to do it, do not start with positions that you see in movies or porn because that is definitely make you feel clumsy.
For starters, stick to basics and do missionary. The missionary position is the one where one partner lies on their back, and the other partner lies down on top of them. This is one of the easiest positions as both will be able to control each other. Other positions may make you loose control and might hurt. Also, make sure to be close face to face when trying this, this will build intimacy too.
10 tips to make it super awesome
First time sex can be a lot of pressure for few or lame and overhyped for others below are certain must do things to ensure it is not a terrible one.
- Personal hygiene: Make sure to be trimmed all over and clean. Bad odor is a turn off, so make sure to be fresh. Best to take a bath before the act.
- Foreplay: Play with the body of each other before penetrating, rushing into penetrative sex directly may hurt the girl and for guys rushing into sex due to over excitement may cause loose in erection
- Talk: Speak to each other as the guy penetrates. Communicating about pain or pleasure is always a good way to understand each other’s likes and dislikes in bed.
- Don’t be drunk: You may assume having a couple of drinks would ease the nerves. But it could also leave you drunk. And especially for the guy, having one drink too many may leave him with a limp member in bed.
- Use your fingers: Before penetrating for the first time, the guy should use a finger or two to play with the girl down there. It helps with lubrication and makes it easier to penetrate. The guy can also go down on the girl for a while to make sure she’s wet and prepared for penetration.
- Be gentle: After penetrating for the first time, the guy should avoid moving too aggressively. When the guy enters the girl, just let the penetration sink in until both of you feel comfortable. If it’s painful or uncomfortable, stop moving your pelvis and distract each other by kissing or using your hands.
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